So I can't tell you how many times I have been chatting with a client and she says
Why didn't they [meaning her OB or midwife] tell me that?
And I can never really give a good answer, because I don't know why providers don't inform expecting moms what may or will happen to her body after birth.
To me, this should be common practice, so that moms can make the best decisions while preparing for birth and recovery. If we are unaware of what to expect how can we prepare?
This creates more of a reactionary mindset, which is typically more defensive. Rather than a proactive mindset, which is typically more offensive.
So I've decided to delve into the issues that aren't brought up. The changes, birth injuries and short and long term problems that arise from pregnancy and birth.
To begin, I want to talk about a podcast I listened to this morning on the way to work. It was called Risky Birth-ness from The Longest Shortest Time.
It was brought to my attention by a past client, who thought I'd enjoy the topic, being about the risks of vaginal births.
In the episode the host, Hillary interviews Kiera Butler who wrote What the Expect: Why aren't we talking about the surprising number of women injured by childbirth? for the magazine Mother Jones.
After downloading the podcast I couldn't wait to listen to it!!
I am such an advocate for women who experience childbirth injuries so I was excited to hear what Kiera had to say.
So I was shocked to feel less than satisfied by the conversation. Which you can listen to here.
Hillary and Kiera spoke some specific birth traumas that can occur from vaginal birth and how the prevalence of birth traumas are on the rise. How Doctors are required by law to inform women the risks of C-section but aren't required to discuss the risks of vaginal birth.
They also discussed certain interventions that may occur during vaginal birth, such as epidural, vacuum, episiotomy, and how the risks of these interventions are not addressed. And how vaginal birth can leads to short term and long term injury. Kiera went into a little more detail around these, stating short term injury is tearing or episiotomy and long term can be prolapse and stress incontinence. [I will go into more detail to these later].
But to me, this episode sounds almost like an anti-vaginal birth discussion until the very end. I do not believe that was the intent; however I feel there was information lacking about the comparison in risks between C-section and vaginal, not just stating there are risks with C-section as well because it is major surgery.
Here's my insight on the risks of vaginal birth -
Vaginal birth is the most natural way to deliver; however there are circumstances that can reduce a woman's ability to birth vaginally, so in those cases C-section is necessary.
Just because vaginal birth is the most natural doesn't mean there are no risks to your body.
There needs to be more education upfront about how to birth, including positioning, respecting the bodies innate pushing reflex. This includes the providers involved doing every effort to use these practices rather than the default lying on the back and telling moms to push.
Providers need to have more training on the muscular on the pelvis or to at least have it become standard practice to have expecting moms see a physical therapist trained in pelvic floor and prenatal care. This gives expecting moms the best opportunity to bring awareness to the proper muscles that are the most involved or injured during birth, regardless of method.
Even though the risk of stress incontinence and prolapse is twice as likely for those women who have vaginal births compared to C-section and may lead to surgery in the long run. These are still risks of C-section in addition to other complications like abdominal pain, back pain, painful sex...
Medical interventions should be the last resort based on an individual basis, because there are other risks that are involved, such as epidural migraines, lack of body awareness to feel a natural push (which can lead to tearing), trauma to infant from vacuum or forceps, etc.
Hospitals and birthing centers need to be more open about it being the woman's decision for birth method and the experience she is looking for. Meaning she should not feel pressured or shamed into either method, but treated with respect.
Care does not end after birth. There needs to be more education around recovery, what to expect, what could happen and how to be proactive. I like how Kiera brought up recovery in France includes PT! [I have to listen to the podcast about pelvic floor PT].
And never, I mean never, tell a mom "At least you have a healthy baby" when she expresses a discontent with the birth experience because it diminishes her feelings.
Each birth experience is different because each woman is different, so every women should have the opportunity to be able to make an informed decision about that experience, without feeling pressured by society, medical community, friends, family or other moms. The only way we can make informed decisions is by being educated by those who have the information. If birth trauma is not discussed, normalized or dismissed, then woman won't know to ask. So providers need to be the first to bring it up. Especially since, pregnancy books don't talk about birth trauma.
After listening to this podcast I was worried I was over reacting, but was pleasantly reassured by other's comments that I was not the only one who felt that this episode left me wanting more. As one woman pointed out in the comments - there was nothing said about vaginal injuries being linked to the birth environment, including medical professionals you've never met, machines, IV, other sounds, etc, which may affect the moms mindset around birth. As I mentioned in another post, when a mom feels uncomfortable with a situation during labor the body responses by slowing or stalling progression. This can lead to intervention and possible injury. So I'm glad someone brought this up in the comments. That yes, there can be birth trauma and injury but what percentage of this trauma was caused by or within less than desirable environments.
I know I may stir up some conversation about this topic and I'd love to hear from you. Tell me about your birth experiences. That is the only way we can learn from each other and figure out the best way to educate other woman about the birthing process.
Look for part 2 of this series as I get more in depth with some of the issues brought up in the podcast like stress incontinence, pain, prolapse and more.